Review: Crazy Rich Asians

Hello, hello, hello!

I read CRAZY RICH ASIANS back in August before the movie came out. I wanted to include it in my review section because I liked it, loved the movie, and LOVED the second book in the series so much! 

First off, I’m mad it took me this long to read it. I’ve seen it in bookstores for years and always just said, “eh not for me” and kept moving. When I started reading it, I was like “yeah definitely not for me” but my goal for the year was to finish all the books I started so…I was going to power through and eventually I fell in love with Rachel and Nick, who are technically the main characters. But there are A LOT of other colorful characters in this world. In the beginning, I found it really hard to keep up with all the names, English and Chinese, as well as having to glance at the footnotes for the translated bursts of Mandarin, Cantonese and other Chinese dialects. I’d say it took about 100-150 pages for me to finally reach “can’t put this down” stage.

Nicholas Young and Rachel Chu are professors at NYU. They have modest living accommodations in New York City and have been dating for close to two years. Nick invites Rachel to spend the summer holiday with him in his native Singapore, without telling her that he’s basically royalty. Nicholas comes from one of the oldest and wealthiest families in Asia. Rachel is thrown into a world completely new to her of private jets, couture, and family loyalties.

But here’s the thing: a lot of the characters can be really unrelatable because the wealth described in this book is exactly as the title suggests: CRAZY. But, at its core, this book is about family expectations. Nick’s mother and her friends are traditional to a fault where they are unwelcoming, mean, and snobbish. I did not like Eleanor, Nick’s mother. I can get on the “All for a mother’s love” bandwagon, but this took it to such a vicious place I found myself cringing a lot (which I think is the point). You see the generational gap between the 30-somethings and their parents. I’m not of Asian descent, but I’d really like to speak to some asian friends if they feel the pressures to carry on a legacy like some of these characters do.

There’s a subplot involving one of Nick’s cousins, Astrid, that according to my friend who’s only seen the movie, seems unnecessary. I really liked the character of Astrid in the book, but did get frustrated when I was taken away from the Rachel plot. However, as a literary device, I think Astrid’s relationship with her husband Michael is used as juxtaposition to Rachel and Nick or possibly a warning. No spoilers!

I loved the ending. The movie keeps getting labeled a Romantic Comedy and after seeing it I totally agree due to the edits/changes made, but the book felt like so much more. There’s a story of substance wrapped up in all the jets, private islands, and diamonds described. It’s a story of resilience and family, whatever kind of family we come from.

Have you read Crazy Rich Asians? What did you think? 

Most Anticipated New Books

Happy Friday! We made it! I have big weekend plans of rehearsal, getting this blog off the ground, and seeing an advance screening of The Crimes of Grindelwald (also laundry, meal prepping, and wedding planning, so it’s not as glamorous as it sounds).

With only two months left of 2018, I’m ready to snuggle into some Christmas classics and holiday focused books. BUT there are still so many books coming out that I’m excited about! A lot of them are being placed on my Christmas and birthday list (hint friends and family, hint hint). I am definitely that person that gets excited about a bookstore gift card. I’m not offended, bring ’em on!

Homebody by Joanna Gaines-November 6, 2018: My fiance and I love Chip and Jo and I can’t wait to read her design book! We’re moving next year and registering for wedding gifts, so I think it’ll be super helpful to see her simplistic style. It’s also supposed to help you determine your own design style.

Becoming by Michelle Obama-November 13, 2018: I LOVE Michelle Obama. I would do almost anything for that woman. I am so excited to read about her life growing up on the South side of Chicago and her real thoughts on the struggles she and her husband faced as the first black first couple.

Those are the two I cannot wait for! I found some others, but nothing was really grabbing me. Is there anything you’re dying to get your hands on? My TBR is stacked right now, so I think it’s hard to look ahead! I will do a post this weekend about what books are on my Christmas and birthday wish lists (My birthday is unfortunately December 30) as well as my favorite books to give!

Have a great Friday!

November To Be Read List

Happy November! I love this time of year. I haven’t started listening to Christmas music just yet…but it will probably happen at some point today. My goal for this season is to not explain why I’m doing it. It makes me happy, so therefore I’m just going to do it!

I thought It’d share my November To Be Read List today! I have 3 books left to finish before reaching my goal for 2018 which is crazy! Last year I was really down to the wire and squeezing in as many books before January 1st as possible.

  1. The Good Neighbor by Maxwell King
  2. A Spark of Light by Jodi Picoult
  3. Winter in Paradise by Elin Hilderbrand
  4. Seven Days of Us by Francesca Hornak
  5. Rich People Problems by Kevin Kwan

I’m keeping this relatively small for the month because I know things can get crazy! But I really want to finish the Crazy Rich Asians series. That’s one I am definitely having to wait for from the library, so there’s no telling how long I could be waiting for it. Hopefully not too long!

I’ve already started The Good Neighbor and I keep finding myself tearing up reading it! I LOVED Mr. Rogers as a kid. I remember when my mom told me he passed away and I couldn’t believe it. His legacy lives on through all now grown children who watched him every day.

A Spark of Light has been one of the most talked about books of the year! I have always loved Jodi Picoult because she puts so much effort and research into her books; they’re not fluffy stories (although you’ll see from my feed that I do love a good fluffy book). This story sounds so relevant to what is going on today and I am really excited to dive into it (hopefully next week!).

I want to start writing reviews for the favorite books I’ve read this year, it’s just a means of sitting and focusing. I think it will be a challenge for me to write reviews because I never normally have to explain myself so thoroughly. However, I am up for the challenge. I’m so grateful for this space.

Let me a comment with what you’d like to see! I think I’m going to write two reviews for each book: spoiler free and in depth. Visit my instagram @readandwright for more content as well! Have a great Thursday, fellow readers!

 

Welcome to Read and Wright

Happy Halloween! I think it’s about time Read and Wright had it’s own corner of the Internet, right? I can’t take all the credit. I have an incredible support system around me and one of my friends set this up for my yesterday. I can’t appreciate it enough, honestly. I am not exactly technologically savvy and can barely keep my acting website up to date. This space is going to be dedicated to full, in depth reviews of books as well as discussions surrounding what I’m reading.

I think books can take us on a journey. I wrote this a while ago, when I wanted to have a blog about the books I’m reading. I figured I’d share it ago, but it was written way back in April:

When I was in third grade, the first Harry Potter movie came out that November. It was a Wednesday and parent/teacher conference day. My mom picked up my brother and I early, packed us a lunch, and took us to see the first 11am showing of Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone. My older brother Max had read the book; I had not. I knew Max really loved the book but I don’t remember if I knew anything about the world I was about to get a peek into. Needless to say, I was absolutely hooked. That night, I asked Max if I could borrow his copy of the first book. I snuggled into my bed and at 8 years old, fell in love for the first time. My mom came in to tuck. me in and I launched into all the differences between the book and movie. “Mommy, the book! It’s so much better!” I was already a purist.

This is the earliest memory I have of falling in love with a real book. I have favorite children’s books that I remember reading with my parents before bed, but Harry Potter really was the first BOOK I read and really fell in love with myself. It inspired me to find more and more like it.

I’ve always described myself as an introvert living an extroverts life. I have to spend most of my time with other people and I LOVE people. I love observing people and I always have fun when I do go out. But I 100% NEED time to recharge. I had a really busy couple of months recently. I woke up one morning and was so excited to get to the subway (lol what) because I knew I was going to be able to just sit by myself and read my book. At that point, I was rereading All American Girl by Meg Cabot. A seemingly silly YA teen girl book, but man was it entertaining and pulled me in. It made my remember why I loved it at 12 or 13 when I first read it.

I think I read because it’s how I learn. I learn from people best but I don’t always like sitting down and having difficult conversations. I learn a lot from characters and I tend to retain information better. Like right now, I’m sitting in a cafe (Starbucks, you caught me) listening to Lady Gaga sing A Wonderful World while it rains outside. Like, how lucky am I? And I’ll probably start drumming up the beginning of a novel while I write this post. Will I finish it? Who even knows. I don’t even think this post is related anymore.

Cheers, folks.

So, here we are. It’s October (Happy Halloween!) and I finally have a space all my own that’s real. I’m so excited and can’t wait to go through my 2018 books and write up REAl reviews of what I’ve read and hold discussions. How cool is social media for that reason?